Painted path showing one child growing up: a toddler with blocks, a child reading, a preteen at a teaching board, a teen at a woodworking bench, and a young adult looking toward the hills.

The program

Pathways

A development program for children growing up in residential care — social development, English, and workforce readiness, delivered as one continuous path from early childhood to independent adulthood.

From the home to a life they love

The path we are building for every child

  1. Ages 2–5

    Discover

    “I belong here.”

    English
    Songs, games and greetings
    Hands-on
    Play and helping at home
  2. Ages 6–9

    Grow

    “I can do things.”

    English
    First words and reading
    Hands-on
    Crafts, gardens and kitchen help
  3. Ages 10–13

    Explore

    “What am I good at?”

    English
    Real conversations
    Hands-on
    Projects and workplace visits
  4. Ages 14–15

    Prepare

    “I can picture life after the home.”

    English
    English for work
    Hands-on
    Kitchen, workshop and computer skills
    Independence
    From 15: learning to live on your own
  5. Ages 16–18

    Launch

    “I know where I’m going.”

    English
    Hotel and restaurant English, plus a certificate
    Hands-on
    Internships and a college or trade plan
    Independence
    Living in an independent dorm
  6. Ages 18–20

    Love life

    “I love my life!”

    English
    English that opens doors
    Hands-on
    College, trade school or a first job, with the same mentor

We don’t want these kids to just live life. We want them to love life!

These are God’s children. At every age, we support prayer, group prayer, reading the Bible and being close with God.

How it works

Six things make the difference

English first

English is the highest-return skill we can teach. It opens jobs in hotels, restaurants and tourism in Mexico and on Colombia’s coast.

Learning by doing

Kitchens, workshops, gardens and real workplaces, not only classrooms.

A path to real work

We ask local employers what they hire for before we teach a trade, so training leads to college, a vocation or a job.

Room to practice independence

At fifteen, young people start learning to live on their own. We fund the construction of independent dorms to support that transition.

A mentor who stays

A trained, paid mentor commits for three years and stays past age eighteen.

Close to God

These are God’s children. We support prayer, group prayer, reading the Bible and being close with God.

Pathways installs inside an existing home in ninety days, and it costs the home nothing.

Read the full program: the model, weekly schedule, safeguarding and measurement

Belong → Communicate → Prepare → Launch

In Spanish the program is Los Caminos de la Vida — Pertenecer, Comunicarse, Prepararse, Despegar. The name comes from a vallenato — Scott's favorite music, learned on the Colombian coast — a song almost everyone there can sing, about the roads of life turning out not to be the ones you imagined. This program is the argument against that. The full story is on the Spanish page →

From care to capability

We do not simply improve circumstances. We expand what becomes possible.

Pathways is designed to be installed inside an existing children's home or community organization. It is built for a residential setting of roughly a hundred children between the ages of two and eighteen, and it runs alongside the home's own education, caregiving, therapy and child-protection work rather than replacing any of it.

The objective

Every child should leave care with stronger relationships, stronger communication, greater confidence, practical life skills, and a realistic pathway toward education, employment and independence.

The model is age-based, trauma-informed, relationship-centered, bilingual where it should be, and measured. What a home already does well, Pathways leaves alone. What it has no budget or staff to do — consistent social development, real English, and a bridge into adulthood — is what we bring.

The premise

Stability, structure, direction — and why that order is the whole argument

Everything below this section rests on one idea, and it did not start with children. Scott Kimball has spent twenty-five years asking a single question — how do you maximize the potential of a person? — and the answer has held in every setting he has tested it: a person becomes capable when three things are present at once.

1

Stability

Someone who will still be here next year.

Stability is relational, not logistical. It is felt rather than observed, and it is the answer a child gives to four questions they are always asking and almost never say out loud: Do I feel safe? Do I feel loved? Do I have potential? Am I succeeding at something? A child answering no to those cannot think about Friday, let alone five years from now.

2

Structure

A shape to the days that can be relied on.

A schedule, a routine, a written plan, a rule that holds. Structure is what turns an intention into a repetition, and repetition is the only thing that has ever become capability. Nobody gets good at anything on inspiration.

3

Direction

What do I want to bring to the world?

Not a job title. A contribution — which, unlike a title, a young person can start making today. Without direction, structure is containment: a well-run day that arrives nowhere. Direction is what makes the routine worth keeping.

The part most programs get wrong

You cannot install direction before stability.

Goal-setting workshops arrive at children’s homes constantly. They are delivered to young people who do not have one adult they are certain will still be there in a year, and they fail for that reason rather than for want of enthusiasm. A child plans as far ahead as their world is predictable. Extend the predictability and the planning extends by itself.

So the order is not decorative. Stability is built first because it is load-bearing. Structure is built on top of it. Direction is what the first two make possible — and it arrives last, which is also why Horizon is the fourth pillar and not the first.

The correction this setting requires

Children in care are not short of structure

This is where the framework needs adjusting for residential care, and it is the thing an experienced director will test us on immediately.

A children’s home is already one of the most structured environments a person can live in. Uniforms. A time to wake. A time for breakfast. School, then chores on a rota, cleaning schedules, bathing schedules, set recreation hours, church on Sunday, a time for lights out. Very little of a child’s day is unaccounted for.

Arriving at a home like that with an offer of more structure would be both useless and insulting.

What is actually missing is the other two. Stability — because staff turn over, and structure without continuity of people is only a timetable. And direction — because the timetable runs to eighteen and then stops, with nothing on the other side of it.

There is a further distinction that decides whether structure develops a child or merely contains them: whether they had any hand in building it. Structure a young person helped shape, and can make choices inside, is developmental. Structure done to them is management. That difference is the reason agency runs through every part of this program, and the reason nothing we count is something a young person did not choose.

The question underneath

Not what do you want to be. What do you want to bring to the world?

Almost every question an adult puts to a young person is the same question: what do you want to be? It asks for a noun. A job title. And a noun is a small container for a life — answer it at fifteen and you have either locked yourself into something or, more often, named the only job you have heard of.

The framing we use instead comes from the National Geographic photographer and storyteller DeWitt Jones, whose work Scott has returned to for years. His reframe is to stop asking what you want to be and start asking what you want to bring to the world.

Why this matters more here than anywhere else

A title is something you wait for. A contribution is something you can start today.

That distinction is not philosophical for a young person in residential care. Ask a fourteen-year-old what they want to be and the honest answer is that everything depends on decisions other people will make about them. Ask what they want to bring — patience, steadiness, the ability to fix things, someone who notices when a younger child is struggling — and the answer is available immediately, and they can act on it this week.

Which means direction stops being purely future-tense. A young person who is already contributing something is answering two of the stability questions at once — do I have potential, am I succeeding at something — and the three parts start reinforcing one another rather than queuing up.

The concrete questions still follow, and they are easier to answer once the large one has been:

  • What kind of work — not a job title, a kind of day
  • What kind of family, and what kind of person to be inside it
  • Where to live, and what that place needs to have in it
  • What to accomplish, and what would count as having done it
  • Where to go, and what is worth seeing
  • What to learn, and what to become good at
  • How to grow, and what growing would look like from the outside
  • What success means — in their words, not in ours

A young person who can answer the large question can answer all of the small ones. A young person who has only ever been asked the small ones tends to answer with whatever job they have heard of.

The four pillars are how this premise gets delivered. Belonging is stability made into a person. Agency is what a young person exercises inside the structure. Mastery is structure turned into capability. Horizon is direction with documents attached.

How the pieces fit

What a young person needs, and what we actually deliver

These are two halves of one idea, and it is worth being explicit about which is which. The left column is the diagnosis — the four things institutional care most often fails to supply. The right column is the program that supplies them.

What is missing What we run What that means in practice
Belonging Belong Social and human development, and one trained adult who is still there next year.
Agency Communicate English, and the wider ability to be understood. A young person who cannot make themselves heard has no agency to exercise.
Mastery Prepare Life skills, digital and financial literacy, and competence in something concrete.
Horizon Launch Documents, housing, a plan, an employer or a place to study — and a mentor past eighteen.

If you have read our home page, the left column is the language we use to describe the problem publicly. The right column is the language we use with a partner home, because it names work that has to appear on a timetable.

Developmental architecture

Five cohorts. One continuum.

Programming changes as children develop. The standard of possibility does not.

  • DiscoverAges 2–5
    Belonging Belonging, play, emotional development, first exposure to English as sound and song rather than study.
  • GrowAges 6–9
    Social skills Social skills, confidence, foundational English, responsibility, and the first sight of what adults do all day.
  • ExploreAges 10–13
    Communication Communication, teamwork, conversational English, and career exposure broad enough to be surprising.
  • PrepareAges 14–15
    Professional behaviors Professional behaviors, workplace English, digital and financial literacy, and the habits that survive a first job.
  • LaunchAges 16–18
    Employment Employment, vocational pathways, workplace English, independent living, and a written plan with a name against every step.
On boys and girls

Every cohort receives the same core curriculum. Where a home's population is weighted heavily toward one gender — as most are — that affects how sessions are staffed and grouped, never who is entitled to what. Small single-gender groups are added where the subject calls for it: safety, confidence, healthy relationships, and the risks a young person will meet at work.

The four pillars

What gets delivered, week after week

01

Belong

Social and human development.

Before a young person can thrive at school or at work, they need to be able to understand themselves, relate to others, manage conflict, communicate, cooperate and trust.

The curriculum moves from emotional vocabulary and cooperative play in the youngest cohort, through teamwork, leadership, resilience and decision-making, to boundaries, public speaking and professional social intelligence by the time a young person is preparing to leave.

This is the pillar most often treated as soft and cut first. It is the one every other pillar rests on.

Core competencies

  • Self-awareness and regulation
  • Communication and listening
  • Teamwork and conflict resolution
  • Healthy relationships and boundaries
  • Leadership and accountability
  • Professional social intelligence
Outcome

Young people who feel valued, connected and confident — and who are increasingly capable of navigating relationships and unfamiliar rooms.

02

Communicate

Love La Vida English — language that creates opportunity.

This is not another grammar class. It builds functional English a young person can use in school, in an interview, at work, while traveling, and in ordinary life.

  1. DiscoverAges 2–5

    Songs, games, objects, colors, numbers, greetings and movement. English as something that happens, not something that is taught.

  2. GrowAges 6–9

    Vocabulary, simple sentences, questions, listening, and the confidence to speak badly in front of other people.

  3. ExploreAges 10–13

    Functional conversation, reading, talking about their own interests, giving directions, and speaking with visitors.

  4. PrepareAges 14–15

    Workplace vocabulary, digital communication, presentations, and handling a customer.

  5. LaunchAges 16–18

    Interview English, professional communication, following workplace instructions, and solving a problem out loud.

How it is measured

For older students, proficiency is aligned to a recognized framework such as CEFR — paired with practical demonstrations that a certificate cannot fake: a self-introduction, a job interview, a phone call, a customer interaction, an email, and one workplace scenario.

03

Prepare

Life skills and workforce readiness begin long before the first job.

Career development should begin with exposure, not pressure. Younger children discover what adults do. Adolescents learn what they are good at. Older youth build concrete skills and a route.

  1. ExposeAges 6–9

    Meet professionals. See workplaces. Discover talents and interests.

  2. ExploreAges 10–13

    Career awareness, strengths, entrepreneurship, and the link between education and opportunity.

  3. BuildAges 14–15

    Digital literacy, budgeting, banking, teamwork, résumé basics, interviewing and customer service.

  4. PathwayAges 16–18

    Career assessment, an individual plan, training, a mentor, real experience, and a place in education or employment.

The Individual Launch Plan

Every young person aged sixteen to eighteen has one, and it answers four questions: Where am I going? What capabilities do I need? What is my next step? Who is helping me get there?

04

Launch

The bridge from care into the economy.

Success is not finishing a class. Success is entering adulthood with a real pathway, real relationships and real capability.

In most systems, support ends on a birthday. A young person leaves with a bag, a certificate and nobody's phone number. Launch exists because that is the moment everything upstream either holds or doesn't — and because it is measurable in a way that feelings are not.

What every young person leaves with

  • A résumé and a professional introduction
  • Documents and ID in hand
  • A bank account and financial literacy
  • A record of English proficiency
  • A career assessment and a Launch Plan
  • Interview and workplace preparation
  • A screened mentor
  • An internship, job-shadow or apprenticeship
  • Employer and education introductions
  • 12–24 months of transition follow-through
The indicator that matters

Where are they six, twelve and twenty-four months later?

Operating rhythm

A week that builds capability

Consistent enough to matter. Light enough to leave childhood intact.

AgesSocialEnglishWork & lifeExperience
2–52 × 30 min3 × 15–20 minThrough playMonthly
6–91 hr2 × 45 min30 minMonthly
10–131 hr2 × 60 min1 hrMonthly
14–151 hr2 × 60 min1.5 hrMonthly
16–181 hr2 × 60 min2 hr2× monthly

Love La Vida Saturday

Once a month the cohorts come together around an experience: career speakers, sport, art, service, English immersion, an entrepreneurship challenge, cooking, culture, an employer visit, a university, a museum, a day outdoors.

Joy is not an extra. It is part of healthy development.

A note on load

These hours are deliberately moderate. A program that eats a child’s week stops being development and becomes another institution.

Relationships with guardrails

Mentorship and safeguarding

Mentoring can be the most powerful element of Pathways — but only when it is structured, screened, supervised and consistent. A formal Child Safeguarding Standard is established before any mentoring begins, not after.

NeverInformal or unsupervised adult–child relationships.
NeverPrivate relationships on social media.
NeverCasual exchange of personal phone numbers.
NeverUnauthorised off-site transportation.
NeverClosed-door one-to-one interaction.
AlwaysBackground screening, role-specific and trauma-informed training, and clinical supervision.
The relationship principle

A local professional who consistently shows up for the same young people creates more developmental value than a stream of one-time visitors.

Evidence of impact

Measure what changes

Did this young person's opportunities increase because Love La Vida was here?

Activity is not impact. Four measurement domains, on a fixed rhythm, with the results published including the ones that go the wrong way.

  • Belong
    Communication, teamwork, confidence, emotional and social competency.
  • English
    Age-appropriate proficiency, with CEFR alignment for older youth.
  • Work readiness
    Digital literacy, financial literacy, professional behavior, career awareness.
  • Launch
    Education, credential, internship, employment, housing stability, mentor continuity.

Measurement rhythm

Baseline  →  6 months  →  12 months

Confidential, age-appropriate development profiles. We collect only what is legitimately needed for program quality and impact measurement, and nothing that would identify a child to anyone outside the home.

An honest limit. With a first cohort of this size these numbers are a management tool, not research. They tell a facilitator which young person is slipping, early enough to act. We will not claim more than that.

Choosing a partner

We go where the gap is biggest, not where the photographs are best

Pathways installs inside a home that already exists and already does the hard part. So the question is not which home is most impressive. It is which home has the largest distance between what it manages today and what it could manage with a curriculum, a trained facilitator and a budget line that isn't survival.

01

Underfunded

Running on less than it needs, month to month. Nothing in the budget beyond food, beds, uniforms and school — because there has never been anything left over to put there.

02

Short on resources

Thin staffing, aging facilities, little or no technology, no English teaching, and nobody whose actual job is what happens to a young person after eighteen.

03

A gap in the programming

The care is adequate and the development is missing. Children who are fed, clothed, schooled — and going through the motions. This is the gap the foundation was built around.

04

A director who wants it

Not one who tolerates it. Pathways takes space on a weekly timetable and asks staff to learn something new, and it fails quietly wherever leadership is merely polite about it.

How we actually assess it

We visit, and we stay long enough to be inconvenient. We walk the building, read the weekly schedule, meet the staff, and ask the director one question that tells us most of what we need: if you had twenty-five percent more resources tomorrow, what would you do first — and why? The answer separates the homes that have a plan and no means from the ones that have neither.

Where we would say no

  • A home in crisis on basic care. If food, safety or staffing are the emergency, that is a different intervention and we are not the right people. We will try to introduce you to someone who is.
  • A home that won't accept the safeguarding standard. It is stricter than most and it is not negotiable.
  • A home that wants the resources without the measurement. The measurement is how we find out whether we are helping, and it is not optional.
  • A home already running strong development programming. We would be duplicating rather than adding, and our money is better spent down the road.

The bias in that list is deliberate. We are looking for the place where the next dollar and the next trained hour do the most work — and that is almost never the home with the best website.

If you lead a children's home, the full framework is published here — the seven dimensions, the weights, the safety gate and the six stages →

What you install with

The program is written down. All twenty-one documents of it.

Pathways is not a consultant who visits. It is a method, and the method is published — in Spanish, free, with no email box in front of it, so that a home can run it whether or not we are ever in the building.

Every document runs on the same six-rung capability ladder and the same twelve domains, which is the part that matters operationally: a director ends up holding one system, not six. And every rule has exactly one owner. The suicide script lives in What Do I Say? and nowhere else. The country reporting routes live in the Child Protection Manual and nowhere else. Anything that needs them points there rather than writing a second version that will eventually drift.

The four that carry the installation

Development Matrix, Ages 2 to 18 is the map — twelve domains, every age band. Individual Development Plan turns it into one plan per child, reviewed every ninety days. 100 Experiences That Build Capability answers what to actually do this afternoon. A Year to Grow is the calendar that puts the other twenty into motion — one capability a week, fifty-two weeks.

This is also the honest answer to a question a careful director should ask: what happens to our home if your funding stops? The relationships end. The mentors end. The method does not — it is already yours, downloaded, printed, with your home’s name on it if you want it there.

The whole library, and every document in it →

Installation

Ninety days to operational

Assess. Pilot. Launch. Learn.

Days 1–30

Assess & design

Safeguarding review, staff interviews, age and education map, inventory of existing programs, English baseline, technology assessment, employer-market scan, and baseline measures.

Days 31–60

Train & pilot

Train local facilitators, establish the cohorts, pilot the social curriculum, begin English placement, create Launch Plans, recruit screened mentors, and secure first employer and education partners.

Days 61–90

Full launch

All cohorts operating, English underway, workforce curriculum active, career experiences scheduled, mentoring live where appropriate, and the first operating dashboard published.

Operating principle

Local trained staff deliver the program. Love La Vida supplies the curriculum, the training, the technology, the measurement, the partnerships, the resources and the quality control — and then gets out of the way.

Pilot → Measure → Improve → Codify → Replicate

From childhood support to independent adulthood.

The first hundred-child location becomes the pilot. Run it. Measure it. Improve it. Codify it. Then replicate what works — without losing the humanity that made it work.

The model

A child in care is rarely short of structure. What is missing is direction — and the stability that makes either one hold.

Everything we build sits on three ideas. They are not sequential stages. They have to be present at the same time, and in this causal order, or the whole thing comes apart.

First

Stability

Safety, routine, and adults who are still there next year. Without it, nothing else is learnable — a child spending their attention on whether they are safe has none left for anything we teach.

Second

Structure

Predictable expectations, practice, and responsibility that grows. Institutions are usually good at this part. Good enough that it gets mistaken for the whole job.

Third

Direction

A future the young person can describe out loud, and chose themselves. This is the part almost nobody funds, because it is hard to photograph and harder to evidence.

How capability actually transfers

Six rungs. Nothing counts as learned before rung four.

Every one of our documents runs on this single ladder, in three vocabularies that map one to one — because three different people use it for three different jobs. A caregiver transferring a skill, a team recording evidence, and the young person rating themselves.

RungThe adult transfersThe team recordsThe young person says
1I do itKnows itI know it
2We do it togetherPractices itI practice it
3You do it with supportDoes it with supportI do it with help
4You do itDoes itI do it on my own
5You solve itSolves itI solve it when something goes wrong
6You teach itTeaches itI can teach it to someone

Nothing is marked as learned before rung four. Nothing counts as readiness to leave before rung five — because rung five is the month the budget doesn’t reach, the shift that goes wrong, the bus that doesn’t come. That is the one that predicts.

And there is no rung zero. Not yet observed means we have not watched yet. It is an instruction to the adult, never a verdict on the child.

What gets developed

Twelve capability domains, ages two to eighteen

The same twelve from age two to age eighteen, at rising resolution. At fifteen they open into fifteen transition domains, because someone about to leave needs documents, transport, technology and housing named separately.

Self-careRegulationRelationshipsHome FoodTimeDecisionsLearning MoneyCommunityWorkIdentity and future

A young person can be green in twelve domains and red in documents, housing, income or network. Those four are conditions, not scores. The gap sets the exit date — not the average. We never average the colors.

Why this one

Thousands of organizations help children in Latin America. Six things make this one different.

We built a program, not a grant budget

Pathways is a curriculum, a schedule, a training package and a measurement instrument that installs inside an existing home in ninety days. Most funders send money. We send a method, and then we train local staff to run it without us.

We fund the part nobody funds

Food, beds, uniforms and schooling are necessary and comparatively well covered. Belonging, agency, mastery and a horizon are not — because they are hard to photograph and harder to evidence. That gap is the entire reason we exist.

We pay for continuity, not for visits

The injury these young people carry is that adults arrive and then stop arriving. So the long relationships belong to trained mentors who stay three years with the same six to eight young people. Visitors are welcome, and warmly — they just come as a group and leave as a group.

We follow them past eighteen

Institutional care ends on a birthday and most support ends with it. Our program runs twelve to twenty-four months past that date, and the indicator we hold ourselves to is where a young person is six, twelve and twenty-four months after leaving.

We work in Spanish, without an interpreter

Both founders are bilingual and speak Spanish at home every day. We talk to directors, teachers, mentors and young people ourselves. In this work that is not a convenience — it is the difference between knowing what is happening and being told about it.

We will publish what fails

Once a year, with the same prominence as what worked. We would rather lose a donor early than build an organization that has to manage its own story.

Most organizations serving children in institutions fund survival. We fund the part that decides whether a young person wants their own future.

Elvia bent down, holding a boy in a full embrace inside a room at the children's home
Belonging is not a program component. It is the whole mechanism — and it is the one thing no institution can schedule.
Belonging One adult

“Someone who is still here next year.”

A trained, paid mentor on a three-year commitment — because a volunteer who stops appearing repeats the injury we are trying to undo.

Agency Their choice

“Someone finally asked what I wanted.”

Institutional life removes decisions. Every part of our program is built so the young person chooses. If they didn't choose it, it doesn't count.

Mastery One thing

“I am someone who plays, builds, fixes, draws.”

Twelve months of coaching and equipment in a pursuit they picked themselves. Competence is where identity comes from.

Horizon A future

“A tomorrow I can describe out loud.”

Documents, housing, tuition and the same mentor past eighteen — the age at which institutional care ends and most support disappears.

How it is supposed to work

The chain, stated plainly so you can hold us to it

Activities are easy to describe and easy to fake. This is the causal claim underneath them, and every measurement we take is aimed at one of these links.

Need

No one is staying

Basic care is met. Continuity, choice and a plausible future are not.

Intervention

One program, weekly

A paid mentor, English, life skills and something each young person chose.

Capability

They can do things

Speak, work with others, handle money, hold a conversation in a second language.

Opportunity

Doors that open

A certificate, an internship, an employer introduction, a place to study.

Outcome

A life they chose

Housed, working or studying, still in contact with an adult, two years on.

See the full Pathways model — cohorts, curriculum, weekly rhythm and measurement →

Impact

What we intend, and what we have actually done

Nearly every new organization blurs these two columns. We are going to keep them apart on this page for as long as the foundation exists, and the right-hand column is the one we expect to be judged on.

Targets — year one

  • One partner home in Chiapas, fully installed
  • Roughly 100 children and young people reached
  • Two trained, paid, clinically supervised mentors
  • English baselines taken for every participant
  • Individual Launch Plans for every 16–18-year-old
  • First operating dashboard published

Achieved to date

  • A partner relationship in Chiapas since 2023
  • The program model designed, written and published in both languages
  • A child safeguarding standard drafted
  • A year-one budget, before raising anything

No children have been served by a Love La Vida program yet. The entity is still being formed. The first report will follow twelve months after the first installation, and it will contain numbers rather than adjectives.

An honest limit. With a first cohort of this size, our numbers will be a management tool rather than research. They will tell a mentor which young person is slipping, early enough to act. We will not claim more than that.